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How to Be More Bold and Confident?

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This child was born into the world pure and perfect, aware only of its own needs. If those needs were met, if someone held you, fed you, kept you safe and warm, your world was perfect.

You learned quickly that approval and love can be tied to ability, performance, appearance, personality, and conformance. As you entered adolescence, all of your own insecurities were reflected in the cruel words and hurtful behaviors of your peers and the images portrayed in the media.

However, if your home life was dysfunctional, critical, or abusive in some way, the self-confidence that was budding as a toddler was never able to fully bloom, especially not during the difficult teenage years. You had the choice to stay tethered to the dysfunction, pain, disappointments, and fears of your youth, or to take control of your life and create it anew. Maybe you were too committed to the stories about you being lazy, unmotivated, the pleaser, shy, unattractive, incapable, not good enough.

Rewire your brain by intentionally thinking new and positive thoughts, even if it feels awkward at first. Arranging your facial muscles in a smile actually makes you feel happier and more confident. When you are kind and giving by choice , you will find immense satisfaction and confidence in sharing and serving others.

If you need to dwell on your problems or failures, just allow yourself a 10 minute pity party a day. One of my favorites is Fearless: Creating the Courage to Change the Things You Can by success coach Steve Chandler. Take small actions every day to improve your confidence and retrain your brain to learn positive new ways of thinking and believing.

How do I become more bold?

Pretend you’re already bold..Make the first move..Do something unpredictable..Ask for what you want..Take risks..Rediscover who you are.

How can I be bold and fearless?

Identify what scares you. ….Describe your fears. ….Break out of your routine. ….Do something that makes you nervous. ….Pursue a bold act of courage. ….Connect with a mentor. ….Acknowledge your strengths. ….Embrace uncertainty.

What is a bold person like?

Bold people stand out from the group. They are confident, courageous, and directed. … People who choose to be bold are inspiring not just because they get big things accomplished, but because they also instigate growth, progress, and movement for themselves and others around them.

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines bold as fearless before danger. Bold people are fearless people. They take chances in spite of what other people think.

The artists who paint large murals that fully express how they view the world. An idea that I thought of once, is that maybe sometimes we dont plan as much in life because were unsure were going to be bold enough to stick to them.

Bold people make plans for their life, because they believe their going to follow through with them and create the reality they want. You may not always stick to the script exactly the way you want but having the structure of a plan can help give you a foundation for building your future. Bold people take action on the things that theyre not happy with in their life.

Honesty is another trait that takes a lot of courage, which makes sense that this would reflect what bold people do. Acknowledging your flaws, recognizing your weaknesses, that takes true boldness to do. Its when the times get tough to hold those beliefs, whether you stand by them or waver from them, that determines how bold you are.

Nonetheless, bold people choose to expect the best in spite of how disappointing the world can be. Weve all heard the expression, its the people who are crazy enough to believe in their dreams that usually make them happen. Many people can sometimes sit by silently and just let misfortune continue to fall on certain groups around us.

Dont let the failures of previous times where you acted bold limit you. Bold people take risks, but they do it in a smart way where its a win-win situation. All of the things listed, you can take moments in your day to try to reflect in your personality.

If youre single, maybe next time you see an attractive person somewhere, you can try being bold enough to walk up to them and start a conversation. If you disagree about an idea with your boss or work colleague, dont be afraid to put it out there (respectfully of course). There are so many of us that could be good leaders at work and in life general, but were too shy or timid to give ourselves that chance.

You can step up and lead your next companys project, and really show how much you can do in life if youre just bold enough to believe you can do it.

Want to learn the strategies on how to be bold and confident? I remember when I was shy and passive, I wanted so badly to learn how to be bold and confident but I wasnt sure that I could even apply the techniques. My confidence level was so low, I was just sure that I couldnt do what confident people do.

It might simply be that you need to pretend that youre already bold in order to achieve the success that you desire. To be bold and confident, you need to practice doing different things to push you out of your comfort zone as well as taking more risks.

As an online life coach, my clients deal with not feeling like theyre not enough and issues related to confidence in relationships and even in their careers. What I want to do in this life coaching blog is to help give you the tools you need to self-coach and sort of DIY your self-improvement. Theyll present a challenge for you in your entire life, but that doesnt have to limit your potential.

Youre free to live with your quirks and idiosyncrasies as long as you put tools and systems into place so that it doesnt hold you back or worse, affect other people. There is far less shame in having that inner strength than allowing it to ruin the rest of your life and bother other people. One of the surest ways to be bold and confident is to start actively pursuing a goal.

You may have noticed that the joy youve felt from achieving past goals was fleeting. If you want to be bold and confident, there is no shame in tooting your own horn now and then, and it doesnt have to sound arrogant. Remembering your successes regularly is critical to feeling confident in your ability.

Bold people say no

It takes a lot of courage sometimes to tell someone “no”. People around us can want a lot from us. Our time, our money, our attention, and a lot of other things.Nonetheless, sometimes we have to be bold and tell people no. We have needs and desires that are just as important to be fulfilled as other peoples.It’s a balance sometimes that we’re not always going to be perfect on, but if you ever feel you really need to be a little focused more on yourself, be fearless enough to tell someone “no”.Those that don’t understand, won’t understand. Our true friends and loved ones will, and still choose to be there for us.

Bold people are decisive

We can hesitate a lot in life. Be crippled with doubts and uncertainty of whether to fully go through with an action or not.Practice choosing to make your decisions decisively, and trusting you’ll find a way to make it work no matter what the outcome is.

Bold people are fully expressive

In fashion, many times when someone is wearing something bright and colorful, people think of it as a bold outfit. The artists who paint large murals that fully express how they view the world. If you want to be more bold in life, be unafraid of expressing exactly who you are through what you wear, what you say, and how you act.

Bold people make plans

An idea that I thought of once, is that maybe sometimes we don’t plan as much in life because we’re unsure we’re going to be bold enough to stick to them.Bold people make plans for their life, because they believe their going to follow through with them and create the reality they want.

Bold people take action

It’s one thing to complain about what you don’t like about your life. It’s another thing to complain about what you don’t like and do nothing about it.Next time you think of something to complain about, think of an action you can take to fix that thing you’re complaining about.

Bold people are completely honest

Honesty is another trait that takes a lot of courage, which makes sense that this would reflect what bold people do.Being honest with yourself is the first part of it. Acknowledging your flaws, recognizing your weaknesses, that takes true boldness to do.Secondly, being honest with those in your life what you think and feel about them. I can think of circumstances in my own life where I had to tell people things that I knew they wouldn’t like.Nonetheless, as a bold person, you have to be honest, otherwise you’re deceiving yourself and you’re deceiving others, which doesn’t ultimately lead to the happiest life.

Bold people stand by their convictions

Everyone has their own beliefs and ideologies. It’s when the times get tough to hold those beliefs, whether you stand by them or waver from them, that determines how bold you are.Bold people will stand by their convictions even if there’s a crowd of people against them. By no means does this mean not being open to what others have to say and reconsidering your beliefs occasionally.But whatever beliefs you settle into, don’t be so easily swayed by the crowd. Stand firm in your beliefs and trust yourself in believing your standing for what’s right.

Bold people expect the best

Pessimism and cynicism are quite easy to fall into this world. Sometimes it can seem reasonable and understandable given past disappointment.Nonetheless, bold people choose to expect the best in spite of how disappointing the world can be. We’ve all heard the expression, it’s the people who are crazy enough to believe in their dreams that usually make them happen.

What is a bold person like?

A bold person is like a lot of us. They’re not always perfect, they have their own insecurities, and they have to work at being bold sometimes just like everyone else.The difference is, a bold person has put in the work, and seen that when they choose to act bold, it can reap rewards.Don’t let the failures of previous times where you acted bold limit you. Bold people didn’t. They kept pushing and believing, and eventually made things happen. We can too.

Is being bold a bad thing?

Being bold is only a bad thing when you’re not being deliberate. Lots of people think being bold involves being completely dangerous.Acting without any thought and reasoning before making their choices. Bold people take risks, but they do it in a smart way where it’s a win-win situation. A win in that if it works out, there’s a big reward, and a win that if it doesn’t, they have lot of lessons that can be learned which will help them do better in the future.

How do you become a bold person?

You become a bold person by practicing boldness in your life daily. Try being more expressive about who you are. Wake up expecting the best things to happen to you in your day.All of the things listed, you can take moments in your day to try to reflect in your personality. The more you take steps in acting bold, the more you’ll become a bold person.

What are some bold actions?

There are lots of bold actions we could do every single day. If you’re single, maybe next time you see an attractive person somewhere, you can try being bold enough to walk up to them and start a conversation.If there’s something you really want to try, but you’re not sure if you’re good enough to do it, take the bold action of just doing it. Taking bold actions in your life will help increase your confidence, and potentially help you find more happiness in life.

How to be bold at work

One of the best ways you can be bold at work is speaking your mind more. If you think you have a good idea, express it in the next office meeting.If you disagree about an idea with your boss or work colleague, don’t be afraid to put it out there (respectfully of course).Additionally, be bold enough to take on leadership roles. There are so many of us that could be good leaders at work and in life general, but we’re too shy or timid to give ourselves that chance.You can step up and lead your next company’s project, and really show how much you can do in life if you’re just bold enough to believe you can do it.

Final thoughts on bold people

When I think of bold people in life, I think of so many history makers and world changers that existed throughout the ages of our existence.They stuck to what they believed, they created a life that made them happy, and they became the best version of themselves.Being bold isn’t easy, but living with boldness can help you discover your own inner strength, and allow you to have true happiness in life.

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